WARRIOR FOR WASHINGTON'S HOMELESS
Column: COLMAN MCCARTHY
Sunday, October 8, 1989
; Page F02
Early evening last Sunday, Sister Maureen Foltz, one of the Carmelite
Sisters of Charity who care for 40 homeless women at Mount Carmel House, sat
in the community dining room remembering a story. "It goes like this," she
said. "A person died and stood before God. God asked, 'Where are your wounds?'
The person answered, 'What wounds? I have none.' God said, 'Was there nothing
worth fighting for?' "
If there's anyone who has nothing to fear should that question ever come up
-- in the herenow or hereafter -- it's Sister Maureen. She has wounds: from a
decade of fighting for the needs and rights of women who have lost almost
everything in life except the awareness that behind the door at Mount Carmel
is a group of nuns who know how to love. This weekend, the sisters planned to
be on the streets of Washington as part of the Housing Now March to protest
the nation's lack of affordable housing.
In 1981, the average age of Mount Carmel's guests was 35. Now it's 27.
"This means," Sister Maureen says, "that women who never finished high school
are being hit earlier with the reality that the economy has no place for them.
We have women here who work at two minimum-wage jobs -- fast-food places --
and save every penny they earn, but they still have to live at a shelter
because they can't afford rent. It doesn't take long to feel worthless."
I have known Sister Maureen since Mount Carmel House opened in 1981. For
information and enlightenment on how America treats its destitute, a few hours
with this remarkable woman surpasses anything to be found in the stream of
reports on homelessness from professionals.
An early lesson from her came one morning years ago when I arrived at Mount
Carmel's foyer with a carload of clothes and food that I had collected. I was
Mr. Largess bringing deliverance -- and clearing out in 10 minutes. "Many
thanks," she said. "We're always glad when people in the suburbs remember the
homeless. But if you're serious about contributing something, just go over
there in the corner and talk to that lady who's sitting at the table alone."
"That's all?" I asked. "Just talk to her?" The woman -- vacant-eyed and
disheveled -- had come in from a day on the streets, with the inevitable
satchel of belongings at her feet.
For a few minutes, Sister Maureen ran me through the basics. It's the
absence of human contact that is often the deepest excruciation felt by
homeless people. They can go for days with no one speaking to them, much less
asking the simplest of questions, "How are you?" We fear the answers, the nun
said, because we might have to act on them. Love, she believes, is not an
emotion, it's a command to action.
As a cause, homeless people are safe. As human beings, they are
threatening. Unlike other issues on the national agenda -- pollution, drugs,
capital gains taxes -- they talk back. We'll feed and clothe them, send checks
to shelters and, when summoned, march in demonstrations with them. But accept
the challenge of a conversation? You do it, Sister Maureen.
It isn't easy even for the nuns. Sister Maureen recalls an unruly opening
of a talk the other evening with three new arrivals at Mount Carmel: "One was
calling the other 'woman,' the second was calling the first 'girl' and the
third called both of them 'bitch.' Finally I said, 'If you don't want to call
each other by your names, that's fine. But for me I need to know your names so
I can call you something other than woman, girl or bitch.' That's what life on
the street had done to them."
The women at the end of the decade at Mount Carmel differ from those at the
beginning in three ways. They are younger, sicker and more addicted to drugs.
The illnesses of the women are similar to ones a decade ago, with one
difference: a lack of past institutional medical care. A decade ago,
psychotics and schizophrenics had usually spent time in hospitals. Once
released, they were accustomed to following house rules and taking medication.
"For the first time," Sister Maureen said, "we have to interview the women
before we take them. Some are too disruptive. It used to be that anyone could
come in if we had room."
Some of the disruption is caused by crack users, addicts who are more
violent, less likely to recover and more vulnerable to prostitution and AIDS.
Sister Maureen, 36, is a nurse who graduated from San Jose City College in
1973. She joined the Carmelites of Charity the following year and is currently
studying for a master's degree in human services. In the tradition of
prophetic witness, she has been arrested eight times for civil disobedience at
military bases, the State Department and other shrines of state power.
"I respect and love the women who come to us," she says. "People don't
understand the fragility of life. It doesn't take much to put you over the
edge. It could happen to you or me just like that."
And who talks with us then?
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